Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Abortions

Abortions

today i am going to talk about unwanted pregnancies and abortions.


a few years ago government declared abortions legal in south africa.
i find it cruel sad and unhuman to terminate a new born baby;
i also believe that teenagers shouid not  engage  in sexual activities and
rather concentrate on their schooling.it is a pity that more and more young females fall into this cycle.


my believe is ;if you do not want to fall pregnant abstain from sex.
My journey

My name is Shireen and i am a member of  Rape Crisis Cape Town Trust. I joined the organisation in 2011. I have made it a prayer request to My God to allow me to stumble upon what he has planned for my life.

I thank God for where i am right now, because it feels as if i have somehow, someway found some meaning to my life. By that i mean we have so many broken, battered and abuse woman walking into our doors and i am the first contact to welcome them into our safe space and have a chat with them. That is when the real work starts for me, that is the platform i have to minister to them and to let them know that no matter the hurt and pain they are going through right now, all you need to know is that everything will be alright in time and that, God loves you and He will never leave you and he will never forsake you. When the question arises that why did God allow this to happen to them, all i can say is that it is stated in the living word that the Lord let the son rise on the righteous and the unrighteous. We really do not have any control over only good things to happen. For that i am very grateful and i feel that at least i have planted a seed and somehow i think left an footprint in that survivors life.

I take my hat off to those woman who have the courage to seek help and start on their road to recovery. I salute the staff and volunteers at Rape Crisis for their dedication and passion for making a difference in a wounded soul.

My Family and my hobby

My name is Nazla Arendse
I am a 47years old widow with 2 beautiful teenage daughters, Zaaidah 16 and in gr 9, and
Naeelah 18 and in matric. I lost my husband 13 years ago. He drowned in PE, while on tour
with the school he was teaching


So being the eldest of 10 children, their was always cooking and baking going on in the
kitchen. Thats where my love for cooking and baking started, and being the eldest i had to
help my mom in the kitchen. My mom is a very good cook.I started off by boiling rice n braising onions.At 13 i could cook a pot of food on my own. My first big challenge came when my mom got sick a day before Eid. I had to cook our whole Eid meal and desserts. From there it was no looking back.


so i would love to share my recipes and other challenges

The reality

Hi i am a community worker,wife,mother who face various challenges but there is always light @ the end of the tunnel

Working and staying in the community is really challenging.  Your energy level can easily go from 10 to zero. People always always see me as a strong person but it is only through the grace of God that i am able to assist. Most of the  time it is elderly people that  i can help.

I am part of a group called Triple G (general gymnastic group) wich is a dancing  group. I have been part of the South African thrice already. I love what i am doing and is also part of my me time on a Wednesday evening. Walking is one of the the other things that i like to do.That is one of the ways you can admire the view.


A mothers work is never done





go for a outing with you family

Family outing for a day

So if you ever go out with your family for a day visit make sure you plan plan plan!!!!!!

Rule no 1
Be prepared! especially if you taking out your young ones
Rule no 2
Always make sure you have their favourite toy or blanket near by
Rule no 3
Always have their bottle with(should been a no 1 rule)
Rule no 4
Take some extra clothes with for them
Rule no 5
Do not forget a extra pair of  clothes for them they like rubbing their dirty hands from there clothes
Rule no 6
Do not forget a extra pair for yourself !
Rule no 7
Kids always gets hungry when they go out,always take extra money with(they will be on a sugar rush)
Rule no 8
Kids tend to explore while the out and about,ask them what do they see and what kind of transport they see
Rule no 9
Kids love to be at places they seen on tv(Mcdonalds,Kfc etc etc)so pop in there
Rule 10
Try to avoid places that sells toys.No kid wants want to leave empty handed (they always take the most expensive toys


These are just 10 rules as to plan you day with you little ones.Next week i will be  blogging about spending time with you kids after a long days work until then..........

A new day a new challenge

 Being a single mom of a 15yr old son,trying to make a living for the two of us in this tough competitive country that is so full of corruption and crime is very tough.You have to be stong and positive at all times.

Working in the fashion industry can be tough,challenging and very competitive,but if u know your job and your worth then it becomes easier.

Weddings,matricballs,corporate functions and graduations always calls for a new and different outfit,but finding a style and colour to suit the client is not always easy.

Creating the perfect outfit is a challenge,but having a passion for your job always helps you through.
So with this year only at its begining I look forward to a challenging year ahead.
Every day something new for someone else.











life matters

hi my name is felicia im a single mom  of three boys we live in a two bedroom house and we very close.being a single mom is not easy but with the grace of God we enjoy life.


my story is about every day life the choices we make and the way we live our lives.
we all have purpose in life .what we should focus on is the goals we set for ourselfs and what we
do to achieve it my goal in life is to be the best at what life has to offer




u can achieve great things in life.all u have to do is set your mind to it and do not lose focus.